Living together,as a success or failure?

Coexistence between students can be so complicated for many people, due to the fact that each one has his own mentality, customs, obsessions, habits, and different ways to think and explain. In addition, whereas some people look for someone who were calm, independent, reliable, unselfish, charming etc., others try to find a more active, party-loving, sociable, cheerful….

Nonetheless, from my viewpoint, when we try to live with a friend who he has been known for a long, we can be disappointed with him or her, as we find out their true personality, if he or she is meticulous, disorganised, maniacal, etc. So, I believe that the most important part, is not living with a person with whom you fit, but with whom you can be yourself, without arguing neither come to blows, nor escapes from responsibility.

As far as I am concerned, at first it can be so complex, even you can feel depressed or lifeless, since you have to bear the lack of communication and discussion for almost a year.  Nevertheless, over time, people tend to adaptation and the harmonious coexistence.

In this way, and to sum up, I would recommend everyone to share a flat, although you fail choosing your apartment-mates, I am sure that it would help you to choose the next time, and in any case, you would have nice experiences.